Choose your identity
If only being yourself was as easy as choosing your identity on the comment box.
Forgive me for my ramblings.
Comment box is now open for discussion. Rawr.
Actually, I've been finding the conversations in my comment boxes quite amusing. I know, I know, it's not something I should be amused at...
But I like knowing peoples thoughts on things, especially when they have something "good" and "interesting" to say.
So say something. You know you have something to say.
posted by Nichi @ 9:07 AM
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Christina, i have been thinking about you for 3 days. almost non stop. i have prayed without seasing for wisdom. and, what i should do. i have talked to some very wise and very close people to me. and i am getting the same message where ever i go. i am still un sure of what i need to do, i think i know what it is, but i don't want to do it. pleas give me one more day.
Oh Lord, pleas help me.
Jake, pleas do not make fun of Emily, she is awesome beyond all reason, there is no need to be like that. i do not care what you say about me. i have heard it all before, and am well used to it. but, pleas pleas, leave Emily alone.
oh, one last thing Jake, i am praying for you.
So now you're minding our business with people YOU know? How noble of you. I'm sure you wouldn't normally, but *sigh* Dylan and Christina just don't seem to be mindlessly accepting everything you have to say! How COULD they? I must be breaking your heart to actually dare to disagree, something you're clearly not used to.
Live and let live. Let us live, as I have been fair and let you and Emily live. I have respected your beliefs infinitely more than you have respected mine. I present my arguements with fairness -- you present your arguements as facts, and cry in a corner when I don't immediately accept them. Leave us alone. You're bothering Christina. You're not being a friend. Ask her! ASK. HER. I've had to cheer her up these past couple days because she's been torn apart. Leave her alone. Leave her alone. You don't seem to pick up on things too quickly, so let me help you with that. Leave her alone. Leave her alone. Leave her alone. Leave her alone. Leave her alone. Leave her alone. Leave her alone. Leave her alone. Leave her alone. Leave her alone. Leave her alone. Leave her alone. Leave her alone. Leave her alone. Leave her alone. Leave her alone. Leave her alone. Leave her alone. Leave her alone. Leave her alone. Leave her alone. Leave her alone. Leave her alone. Leave her alone. Leave her alone. Leave her alone. Leave her alone. Leave her alone. Leave her alone. Leave her alone. Leave her alone. Leave her alone. Leave her alone. Leave her alone. Leave her alone. Leave her alone. Leave her alone. Leave her alone. Leave her alone. Leave her alone. Leave her alone. Leave her alone. Leave her alone. Leave her alone. Leave her alone. Leave her alone. Leave her alone. Leave her alone. Leave her alone. Leave her alone. Leave her alone. Leave her alone. Leave her alone. Leave her alone. Leave her alone. Leave her alone. Leave her alone. Leave her alone. Leave her alone. Leave her alone. Leave her alone. Leave her alone. Leave her alone. Leave her alone. Leave her alone. Leave her alone. Leave her alone. Leave her alone. Leave us alone.
Much appreciated. You're being a horrible person.
i am praying for you too Dylan.
Thanks, but I want to make sure you heard what I said. Did you? About leaving her alone? Because you're hurting her. Please stop.
I'd like to apologize for some of the disrespect for your beliefs in Jake's comment, though. I didn't want him to respond because, though he gets the point across, he tends to inevitably insult as well.
you have made my choice for me.
you shall no longer have to deal with horrible little old me.
i am still praying for you.
It's not me who has to deal with you. It's Christina. See, you're not listening again. Please, ask Christina if she thinks anything you're doing is helping. Ask her honestly. Don't worry, I haven't asked her to say no, or anything underhanded like that. Don't claim you're being a friend while being an adversary.
I'm trying to get you to see this. I want a truce, I want you to accept us, instead of be our rival.
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Well although none of you know who I am and I hate to intrude on my cousins personal business, but after long spent hours and drawn out days I can no longer take acting as an innocent bystander. I will point this fact out first-- I, Patricia, am not a Christina and hold no correlation to any church or any 'god' for that matter which in simplified words means that my opinions are MINE and not manipulated by that of a churches. So here I go butting into your "oh so happy conversations" and you will hear me out because i heard you out as much as I wanted to smack a few of you (sorry Christina i mean no offense to your friends but enough is enough). You believe love and lust are complete different correct? Well, then why do you associate them together if you don't mind me asking? 'What!?!' you ask... you are telling my dearest cousin to wait until marriage to "lust" because obvious marriage is the equavilent to "true love" right? Let's point out your flaws :-) Let's look at the growing numbers of people who married and divorced...hmmm i think that they had that unsayable word SEX. Hahaha giggle it out go ahead i said it! But let's examine them the two "loved" each beyond no doubt because they married, they went on their honeymoon and lusted, possibly had children, and then decided to divorce. Are they wrong for lusting then? Don't bother answering I know what your going to say. Your simple answer "no they were married", or "well they probably did it before marriage", or they "well someone cheated on someone and that's against "god's" rules. Let me laugh in your face again! Hmmm... affairs would not happen if they truely loved the other person correct? ...Well your semi-wrong but that's a whole different arguement which if you do please you can TRY to defend yourself, but trust me you wont get far.
Anyway, what makes you believe that marriage is the right moment? let me guess because "god". Well, if we are born sinful creatures then i believe we have a good excuse to do some other supposed "sins". Oh I'm wrong huh? fight it on your own time. (and yes i'm going to be a total to you soul-less people and any other time i probably would have liked most of you besides minor differences which can be ignored, but you're crossing a line) So here, either you love my cousin and although you are "concerned for her soul(?)" or whatever i think you should be more concerned for her as a person, as your friend! just maybe though I mean its only a thought. Since thats normally what friends do you know 'stand by their friends' through thick and thin....maybe? Correct me if i'm wrong. Because what i'm taking away from all of you is that you love Christina enough that is okay for you to make her feel like . She is a big girl, she can fend for herself, make her own decisions, and everything else. You are not her parents and suppose to critic her on her bible studies and choices. You are her FRIENDS who hear her out and if you disagree you just barely mention it (in a caring, friendly manner) and let her do as she wishes, its what real friends do. Your not suppose to beat the daylight out of her verbally until she snaps back because people do snap and i'm sure that you could very easily become the straw that broke the cameals back.
Sorry but i'm on Christina's side because someone should be. Well correction on my part...not because someone should be, but because i can think for myself and don't allow the thick fog to keep me from viewing the issue from the inside. Sex before marriage is not common and its not wrong. Its a form of learning. If you want to live a sheltered life then enter college and really see what the world is just to do what she is and expriences normal young adult feelings and see that you were wrong and then fuck up because you weren't equipt then fine. The choice is yours. Christina is learning the ways of life before she leaves home and its probably a smart choice when all precations are used. And even if not there's only a small window for her to "screw up".
Christina, I love you and I don't think that what you are doing is wrong because i'm sure i can be critized very easily when my life has been examined but i enjoy living on the downlow and keeping my choices in a small group which does contain friends exactly like yours the only difference is that mine stand behind me and only express the concern until they see that it upsets me and then they leave it be. And second, i'm sorry for being harsh on your friends and i'm sure i'm out of place but I hate for you have to deal with all the "YOUR WRONG! STOP NOW" with only you and your boyfriend on YOUR side. Much love!
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