Warning: Extreme mushy-ness up ahead.
What is love?
Dictionary look up:
love [luv]
n (plural loves)
1. very strong affection: an intense feeling of tender affection and compassion
Young children need unconditional love.
2. passionate attraction and desire: a passionate feeling of romantic desire and sexual attraction
love used to describe a very strong, positive feeling toward somebody or something. It is used especially to talk about strong romantic or sexual feelings between people; liking used to talk about positive feelings toward somebody or something. These feelings are not as strong as those suggested by love; affection used to describe warm friendly caring feelings between people. It can also be used to talk about a liking for something such as a place; fondness used in a similar way to affection to talk about feelings between people. It can also be used to describe a strong liking or preference for something; passion used to describe an exceptionally intense love for somebody, usually of a strong sexual nature. It can also be used to refer to a strong liking or enthusiasm for something, sometimes of an excessive nature; infatuation used to describe an intense but short-lived and often unrealistic love for somebody, usually of a romantic or sexual nature; crush used to describe somebody’s strong feeling of attraction toward a person with whom he or she is not having a relationship. It is used especially to talk about teenagers and young people.
Bible look up: 1 Corinthians 13:4
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails.
I have been contemplating the meaning of love. What is it? How do you define the line between sexual desire and true love? Not that sexual desire is a bad thing… It is just one of the many ways to show somebody that you love them. Just to much desire can be a bad thing. It can eat away at you, and become the center of the relationship.
(Not that I’m saying that’s happening to my relationship -.-)
I dislike it when adults say: “Oh, well, your only so-and-so-age, you DON’T know what LOVE is.”
Do they truly know if that person doesn’t know what love is? Love is a feeling. From a young age, most people experience love from their mother and father. The love for family members, friends, and shiny things.
But then I do suppose the adults are talking about love between members of the opposite sex. I’m not going to go into the whole “love at this age” thing. Because I will definitely branch off to an entirely different subject.
My dad says love is commitment…oh really?
Talk is cheap. “I love you”…oh really?
Sex is evil…oh really?
Refrain from loving somebody till your eighteen…oh really?
Ducks go quack quack…oh really?!?
(Mr. Fox goes arf, and Kitty says HI!)
I’ve been contemplating love because I am in love. With the most passionate, understanding, and loving man. (Equipped with arf arf intelligence human exploding blasters. 0.o) Being with him has changed my whole life. I want to show him and everybody else that my love for him isn’t something fake. And not just another
non-passionate, uncompassionate, grossly over dramatized teen romance, “Well, like, I need like, another like, boyfriend…”
I love him with all my heart. And that my friends, is NOT overly dramatized. I have to show everybody that I do, I especially have to show it to him.
“Well Christina, you can find a better guy than Dylan”
No. I cannot.
Whose eyes but his eyes can burn into my heart like a fire?
Who can hold and love me like he does?
And, whoever in the world goes “Arfarf!” the way Dylan does? (In my eye?)
Nobody can ever be Sachi. Never.
Sachi, I love you. I really truly do. I want to be with you forever. And that’s not a lie, I really want to stay by your side and love you till the end. But I guess It’s not for me to decide. You might begin to love somebody else. You may perhaps get tired of me. I could possibly do or say something stupid to lose your trust. All in all in the future, something may happen, and you might stop loving me.
Who am I to prevent and prohibit that from happening? Who am I to bind you up and keep you for myself? If that ever happens, I will definitely be sorrowful and heartbroken. Do know that if you were to leave me, I shall never stop loving you. I vow to love you forever, and have no remorseful feelings about everything that we have done together.
Even if I had the power to keep you bound to me, I wouldn’t do it. Sachi cannot be locked up in a cage. He is not a creature that belongs in a cage. He cannot and will not become a prisoner. He is free.
I love you Sachi. And all I want is to love you, and be loved in return.
Screw reality and tell me that you’ll love me forever. Throw away the inevitable truth, lie to me and say you will stay and be with me always. Please, please! Never leave me. I love you! I LOVE YOU. I always will, Sachi.
And my last and final words for this blog entry are…
Kitty says HIIIIIIIIII!!! And I’m just Ducky! Oh really? Oh yes. Boogaboogaboo. Duckies go quack quack. Booglydooglydadoodum. Boing! Doodlehumdrumdreamsofdoom. Congratulations! Wh00t! You have obtained a potion! Yay for you! Pom poms! Victory Fan fare and stuff.Aurubaah?
All my life? Maybe so! Oh dear.
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posted by Nichi @ 8:05 AM
18 Comments:
*sigh*
how do I reply to this? Give me wisdom, Lord!
hm. hm. hm.
I don't know WHAT to think! wow.
Well, I think I would stick to the Bible's definition of love. It's beautiful, and most importantly, the aboslute truth! Follow it to the letter. I believe every single word in the Bible to be true.
Okay, i'm getting off the subject. Well, what sticks out to me in this is that you're putting Dylan in your heart and thoughts in places above God. I'm terrified that you're trying to push God, your Creator, to the back of your head. I'm afraid that you're making Dylan your idol. Yes, I said it...your idol. The Scriptures say that ANYTHING you love more than God is an idol.
please say this isn't so. Don't take your eyes off of the ONLY way to freedom.
Trust in the Lord and he will never leave nor forsake you. He ALONE is trustworthy. The world will forsake you, but if you just turn your life over to God, he will prepare a place for you in heaven!!!
i LOVE you christina,
~Emily
oh christina. oh, my sweet christina. i am praying for you. remember that God will never leave you, or forsake you. no matter what you do, or have done.
i love you. i always will.
LOVE
this is some of what i kissed dating goodbye says about love
we have 2 styles of love to select from - God's or the world's. which will we choose?
all the world's deceptions flow from the belief that "love is primarily for the fulfillment and comfort of self". the world poisons love by focusing first and foremost on meeting one's own needs.
next we are told that "love is primarily a feeling". at first glance this seems innocent enough - we often FEEL love, and this isn't necessarily wrong, but when we make our feelings the most important measure of love, we place OURSELVES at the center of importance. our feelings by themselves don't do others a bit of good.
also, the world tells us that "love is beyond our control"
BUT the Bible offers a very different perspective. for the person practicing the self-centered, feelings-governed, beyond-my-control love of the world, God's definition can be as startling as an unexpected slap in the face.
the world takes us to a silver screen on which flickering images of passion and romance play, and as we watch, the world says "this is love". God takes us to the foot of a tree on which a naked and bloodied man hangs and says, "THIS is love."
God always defines love by pointing to his son. this was the only way our sins could be forgiven. the innocent One took the place of the guilty - he offered himself up to death so that we could have eternal life. God's perfect love for a fallen world is most clearly seen in teh death of His Son.
Christ taught that "love is not for the fulfillment of self but for the glory of God and the good of others". True love is selfless. It gives; it sacrifices; it dies to its own needs.
Christ also showed that "true loove is not measured or governed by feeling." He went to the cross when every emotion and instinct in His body told Him to turn back. He clearly didn't FEEL like enduring the beatings, hanging on the cross, and enduring God's wrath for sin. But He submitted Himself to His Father's will. Jesus' feelings were not the test of His love, nor were they His master.
Christ wants us to have this same attitude. True love always expresses itself in obedience to God and service to others. Good feelings are nice but not necessary.
Jesus' example also shows us that "love is under our control". He CHOSE to love us. He chose to lay down his life for us. We need to throw out the misconception that love is some strange "force" that tosses us around against out will like leaves in the wind. We cannot justify doing what we know is wrong by saying that love grabbed hold of us and "made" us behave irresponsibly. That's not love. Instead, it's what the Bible calls in 1 Thess 4:5 "passionate lust". We express true love in obedience to God and service to others.
anyway, as i read your post, i thought of this chapter (looking up "love" in God's dictionary) and just wrote out some of the main parts. hope it helps you and clears some things up for you and whoever else is reading this that may be confused.
i love you too Christina! :) and pray for you alot.
I love you Christina, and although I cannot bring myself to toss away reality in favor of bliss, as these two have done, I believe there is a good probability that we will be together forever. Please, take comfort that I really and truly do love you too, and I firmly believe you to be of the same level of devotion. That you would take the time to painstakingly carve out your deepest feelings for me and lay them out for me to read should be more than enough convincing for ANYONE. I need to do the same for you more often. Lately I've been so afraid to write. Even now, my style is unoriginal, boring. It's synonymous, I fear, to that feeling of "hiding" that I always rack on you about. I cannot afford to lose any more of Sachi than I already have. Anyway, this isn't about my insecurities, this is about how much I love YOU. May our love be true and meaningful forever. :)
On the other hand, there are those people who would try to hinder such love. This wonder that you have found, the wonder that I have found in you, they would attempt to turn it into a symbol of evil.
That somehow, at every turn, when Christina expresses her delight for what she has found, the people she thought as friends would try only to take it away from her. To steal away the only happiness which she has found to be TRUE. But Dylan is the evil one, love is evil. Until you're 18, of course. Oh but you two, you two are the ones whose eyes are clouded. In so many ways, it is difficult to begin, for you who claim the answer to life, to all things, you who are, in your "quest" for selflessness, are plagued with conceit. You who would, in all of your evil, dare to disclaim all individuals who would stray from this singular path in any manner. Your feeble attempt to instill guilt in Christina for taking her eyes off of God for a second to love someone. And this love, her passion, is it not obviously the freedom she seeks? Is she not obviously enlightened by this feeling? Yet you claim that by attaining happiness in some other way, attaining freedom in any other way than absolute servitude to a figure, she is doing wrong. By loving someone, essentially, she is giving into evil. You who completely deny logic, using God as an excuse for any generalization you want to make, using God as your reason for any unfair judgement you would pass upon anybody else, you would take her away from the happiness she has found?
You WANT TO TELL ME that taking HAPPINESS away from somebody is righteous, because "God" comes first?! Well, "God" forbid that Christina express her love for a man! Is your excuse her age? That magical age that she has not yet reached? The one predefined, NOT by God (yet another incredulous flaw in the argument that Christina shouldn't love anyone until she's 18), but by the selfish laws of man who would govern the rights of others, even in matters of love?
God is your excuse for sin. Man is a natural sinner, yes? But you see, that is what she loves about me, I think. I actually ATTEMPT NOT TO "SIN", not to do anyone wrong. I attempt this instead of using God as my excuse to be unfair in any situation involving other people. And though you would be right in saying that I will inevitably make mistakes, I choose to learn, much more effectively might I add, from my mistakes, rather than your "savior". So blind... how do you live with yourself, or the biggest question, how do you dare selfishly spread your infinitely closed-minded way of thinking to others without guilt?!
So may your God forsake the two of us for simply loving one another and dedicating our lives to the quest for benevolence, as your God sends perfectly honorable and respectable people who just happen to have not come across Christianity in their lives to an eternity of fire and torture, like the innocent mothers subject to rape and beatings in Iraq from rogue soldiers.
"BUT the Bible offers a very different perspective. for the person practicing the self-centered, feelings-governed, beyond-my-control love of the world, God's definition can be as startling as an unexpected slap in the face."
"Jesus' example also shows us that "love is under our control". He CHOSE to love us. He chose to lay down his life for us. We need to throw out the misconception that love is some strange "force" that tosses us around against out will like leaves in the wind. We cannot justify doing what we know is wrong by saying that love grabbed hold of us and "made" us behave irresponsibly. That's not love. Instead, it's what the Bible calls in 1 Thess 4:5 "passionate lust". We express true love in obedience to God and service to others."
Why do Christians always seem to assume that any situation that did not derive itself nor directly agree with Christian teachings is doomed to be evil and selfish?
Why did you go off on a tangent about the definition of true love? You are focusing on YOUR image of our relationship, instead of what the relationship is in reality. Your image seems to be that Christina is "giving in" to love, like love is some uncontrollable force, and denouncing that by saying that real love is different than the "world's" (dare you subject the entire world to your generalization?) definition of love. Tell me, does Christina seem confused to you? Is she shaking with indecisiveness, because she just doesn't know what to do in the face of this evil being called love that encroaches upon her? I really don't understand what you're trying to say. Her entire post was emphasizing and focusing on the fact that she has FOUND true love, something BETTER than the media and typical teenage definition of love. Love that IS real. You use Christ as an example of real love, saying that he died for his people, epitomizing and symbolizing the purity of selflessness. Well, indeed he did, and that is a wonderful love; a love rich with benevolence. Now, even at her young age, or perhaps I daresay, ESPECIALLY at her young age, she has found someone who inspires her with obviously more than just some selfish desire, someone to be her partner, to infinitely question her as he expects her to infinitely question him. She has found a counterpart who makes her feel more complete, who inspires her to become better, to seek benevolence and fairness in the greatest form she can. It is a beautiful symbiotic relationship in which we both share with each other, learn from each other, and encourage each other to be content with ourselves through benevolent values. I dare not compare us to Jesus, but is that love not beautiful as well? Why must it be evil? Oh the things you read that corrupt your view, dropping words like poison and deception next to the world. The world wants to decieve you that this, and the world is poisoning you, trying to make you think this! That is a convenient way to place a burden on someone -- to label her love, how little you know of it indeed, as the entire world conspiring against her. Be careful what you read.
In conclusion, our love is more complicated than you seem to think, and is made of strong material. Most importantly though, our love is a mutual, and not some evil force pulling us together.
Katherine, in the first post, I wasn't referring to anything you'd said -- in fact, your post wasn't there at the time, so don't feel included. The second one was, and I have another thing to add. :P
"We cannot justify doing what we know is wrong by saying that love grabbed hold of us and "made" us behave irresponsibly."
How is this at all relevant? Why must so many Christians assume that they are on a moral pedestal, looking down upon the selfish world? What makes you think our love, which is much more than you seem to think, as I've said, is some river of deception?
Mind you, not all Christians are this way, but the entire religion is tarnished by individuals who represent this image.
hmmm well i will get back to ya'll on this after i do some thinking and some praying. but first i want to say one thing. i am not trying to say that i am better than anyone, or that i somehow deserve God's grace more than anyone. because i am not and i do not. I am guilty of breaking all of God's law from the day i was concieved. Before a holy God, i stand as completely guilty, vile, and stained with the evils of sin and self to my every cell. And there is NOTHING i can do to cleanse myself from any of this. Beause all my righteous works are nothing but filthy rags. So, I deserve eternal torment in hell. I deserve God's wrath for all eternity. As does every human being that ever walked this earth except for Jesus Christ. And the only reason I now stand as spotless and pure before God is because God poured the wrath that I deserve on to His only son at the cross - He paid the debt. So that anyone who repented of their sin and believed in Jesus Christ would be saved and would be freed from their bondage to sin. And that they would have eternal life. Christ freely welcomes all who would deny themselves, and follow him. What amazing grace!
And also, I wasn't necessarily saying that Christina was being tossed about helplessly by the feelings of "love" or any of the other things i mentioned, because truthfully, like you said, I do not know all that goes on, or what your love is like. I was just showing some of the misconceptions of love that alot of people have and are blinded by. And also what true love looks like according to the Bible. I was not trying to make you or Christina feel guilty in any way, but only trying to say what I believe true love is like and what it is not like.
I really do love Christina. I'm sorry if we appear to be judging her. Honestly, we love her and want what is best for her. We have known her for so long, and it is only very recently that she has changed (a LOT) and so we really don't know what to think!
I will keep praying! I hope to get back to you on this like I said at the beginning of this comment. But i just woke up, I just read the comments and I'm sort of confused at the moment. (as if those are good excuses :D) So... until later...
well, dylan, lust and love have 2 very different places. TRUE love waits. TRUE love is an action, NOT a feeling. TRUE love would respect that you both are NOT old enough for this stuff. TRUE love would keep it's distence till the time is RIGHT! just beacaue what you and Christina are doing is FUN and enjoyable and SEEMS to meat all your lusts and passions, does NOT mean that it is RIGHT. just cuz it FEELS right, doesn't mean it is. the only place where you will EVER find REAL joy, i didn't say happieness, i said JOY, is in God. I don't think that Christina should wait for all this till she is "18" I think she (and you) should wait till you are ready to GET MARRIED. and (i'm sorry this WILL sound mean, but it is the truth) nether of you are ready for marrage. i NEVER said that what you are doing is evil, but done in the WRONG TIME, and in the WRONG WAY, it is. you are taking all the stuff that SHOULD be for AFTER the wedding day, and doing it now. passion and romance are good. wunderful, God made in fact. but he did NOT mean it for when people are NOT married. and personally, i think that a man should NEVER EVER say "i love you" to a girl, till he is READY to say, "will you marrie me" RIGHT after. REAL passion and REAL romance and REAL love is sooooooooooo amazing, if you guys would just WAIT till you were married, oh man, it would be amazing.
ok, i wont preach anymore, i can go on and on for hours. (right Christina?!?) just PLEAS think about what we are saying!!!! PLEAS!!!!! forget what feels right for a moment, and think.
OH YAH! and as far as "inocent" people go, there ARE none. if ALL God did was send His sone to save us, that would be enough. WE deserve the WRATH of God!!! WE ARE born with sin!!! THER IS NO INOCENT PERSON! so to say that God is unfair, that you don't deserve hell, i'm sorry to tell you this, but you do. we all do. we are saved by GRACE ALONE! but God does SO MUCH more then just save us!!!!!! SOOOOO MUCH!!!!!!!
Believe me, I do my own share of thinking. Marriage is a social thing. It is born as society's most common label for the (hopefully) eternal bond of a man and a woman. You keep going on a tirade about how Christina and I have love that is nothing but lust, but I, and Christina as well, really want YOU to open your eyes and realize that it is something more than some selfish desire (boy I hate repeating myself). You are right to say that we are not ready for marriage, but probably not for the same judgemental reasons you fathom. Marriage is a financial obligation as well -- I am not ready to ask her to marry me, because it would be financially impossible at this time and because I think that I would rather marry her in Japan. :) But I sure as hell can tell her honestly and completely that I love her, and that I am absolutely devoted to her, and not you or anyone else and tell me, no, us, otherwise. Attempting to do so is selfish. You see, I'm not attacking your God. I do not want to argue about the existence of God, and I'm not trying to change your way of thinking either. What I want is for you to forget what feels right to YOU for a moment, and think about the fact that our relationship feels right to US. All you accomplish by trying to feed her this nonsense about how we shouldn't be in love yet is to stress her out -- you are doing your friend a great disservice.
Innocence, benevolence. You see, I am not attributing these characteristics to myself or anyone else in absolution. Instead, I am saying that I strive for these qualities, and that I don't need God's help to strive to better my way of thinking. I do not define your God as unfair, because THAT would be an unfair judgement on MY part -- despite the plethora of baseless judgements you pass to us about our relationship. I actually agree with you that, to a degree, humans are inherently evil. However, the answer to that should not be "Oh God please save me". It should be a lifelong quest to save yourself from doing wrong to others. And with or without God, that cause IS righteous.
Katherine,
I appreciate your reasonable response. I respect your beliefs, and my main point, as you probably know if you read the above, is that Christina is being caused undue stress. Most of your previous comment were, if I understand correctly, not your words, but an excerpt. Therefore, I did not mean to insinuate that you are conceited -- not at all, but that much of your excerpt was irrelevant to the situation.
"I was just showing some of the misconceptions of love that alot of people have and are blinded by. And also what true love looks like according to the Bible."
Yes, but in choosing said excerpt about love to share with us, it is undeniable that you at least obviously think that Christina needs to hear it. Otherwise you wouldn't choose to share it!
"And there is NOTHING i can do to cleanse myself from any of this. Beause all my righteous works are nothing but filthy rags."
See, this is where I have to disagree with you, and, I fear, most Christians -- reason being that I am not a believer myself. I believe that, whether you believe that Christ will save you or not, it is a valiant cause in life to at least ATTEMPT to "sin" as little as possible. To at least attempt righteousness, courteousness, and benevolence. This is a lifelong goal, and even though (assuming existence) it would never compare to the absolute and ultimate mindset of Jesus Christ or God, it is still worth it, to me at least, to try, and I think that to say that it is not worth your effort to try because sin is inevitable is a cheap way of ridding one's own guilt.
"I really do love Christina. I'm sorry if we appear to be judging her. Honestly, we love her and want what is best for her. We have known her for so long, and it is only very recently that she has changed (a LOT) and so we really don't know what to think!"
Yeah, you've known her longer than I, so it's very likely that you noticed her dramatic change a great deal more than I have. The discrepancy between us is that you believe that what is best for her is what she has (and you have, I'm sure) been taught, "to the letter". But she believes differently, and there comes a point where you must respect that, or, as I've said to Beth, you're only stressing her out unnecessarily. I have a lot of respect for you Katherine, and I wouldn't dare to question your beliefs, because your beliefs are what keep you going! Please consider the situation applicable for the two of us as well. If one of my best friends suddenly became radically different, I would likely react in a similar manner.
"I was just showing some of the misconceptions of love that alot of people have and are blinded by."
Take comfort, then, in the fact that the MOST IMPORTANT THING in my life is to avoid the blind state that society would have you succumb to, and that I constantly encourage Christina to do the same. Please do not consider me among the rubbish...
...ARF! :D
well. i have tried all i can. there is nothing for me to say. how can you reason with people such as you? i am only 15, i do not have all the answeres of life, i can't even spell, so to say i do, would be wrong.
all i can say is that if you REALLY love her, you should WAIT till you CAN marry her. i know that you have already, well you know, but, that doesn't mean you have to keep on doing it! why can't you just containe you lust and wait till marrage??? there is a lot more you should wait for till marrage, but that, i think, is a horrible thing to do before.
anyways, i need to hear from Christina that all that you said is what she REALLY thinks and believes, cuz if it is.... well. we will cross that when it comes, so Christina, is this all true to you??
My Dear Beth,
What do you mean by "is this all true to you??"
Please clarify, because I don't really understand what you are trying to tell me.
I am very sure you know it is true that I love Sachi (Dylan) with all of my heart. I am pretty sure I made that quite clear. So yes, it's true that I love Dylan.
Yes it's true that I am not ready for marriage. But just like Dylan said, "probably not for the same judgemental reasons you fathom."
If he asked me to marry him, I'd willingly give myself to him, as I have been doing. But, since I am only sixteen, it is quite illegal. And yes I would rather get married in Japan.
Hm. Are you telling Sachi to "contain" his lust till marrige? Well then, you should be telling me the same thing, (I think you are, but...) I am part way guiltly of making him lust. Commiting that "sin". Because I also lust for him. What do you mean "wait for marriage"? I don't quite understand what you are trying to tell me. Excuse my dullness.
Here is why what you are saying isn't getting to my head.
It feels as if you are PUSHING your ideas of how I "should be" into me. It feels as if you are trying to instill guilt into me. You keep on pressing onto me. You keep telling me how your heart is breaking for me.
Since you are my friend, I want your happiness, but then you tell me it's because of WHAT I AM DOING. It feels as if you are trying to instill guilt on me with your unhappiness. But I am sorry it isn't working. I'm to happy to let it get to me.
My friend Katherine,
I love you so much. And I to have definately noticed the change in myself. It's not the best change I know. But I feel that I cannot turn back, I like the person that I am becoming. As concieted as that sounds, it is true.
I respect you so much for that answer Katherine. It was wonderfully put. Thanks so much for not "blasting away" at me.
I hope I don't change so much that I lose your friendship. That would be one of the worst things that could ever happen to me. I treasure your friendship.
Please don't hate me for who I am about to become.
~Nichi.
I am sorry if this all sounds like it was patched together or splattered around. I have just recently woken up from a nap and my mind is scattered all over the place. Although thats not a very good excuse, it is a valid one.
So until I can piece my mind together...
i am sorry if i am pushing myself on you Christina, i only want to help you. becaues i love you so mcuh. and i mean that you should have sex till you get married! and i was asking if you agree with EVERYTHING that Dylan has been saying to us.??????
you SHOULDN'T have sex till your married, sorry.
Thanks Dylan, for respecting my beliefs. Please know that my purpose was not at all to put stress on Christina or anyone else. :)
Christina, I am so glad you are my friend. Even though we are so completely different. I could not lash out at you or Dylan. What good would that do for any thing? And I will ALWAYS be here for you, and will always be your friend. No matter WHAT! (I know I've gone over this alot, but it never hurts to say it again). :)
Oh, and Christina... I could never hate you! No matter how much you change you'll still be Christina, my FRIEND. If 2 people are truly friends (and I believe we are) they will stay side by side till the end. :) I treasure your friendship too, you "hoity-toity chinese girl"!!! :) hahaha... <3
Dylan and Christina, I know and you know we disagree on many different things. And I know that arguing will get us nowhere. But I want you both to know that if you ever have anything to say, any think to ask, anything you need, please feel free to let me know. And please know that I pray for you guys!
Love always,
katherine
*sigh* you are right Katherine. i should not have said those things the way i did. pleas forgive me you guys. and Christina, i really only said them cuz i care about you.
i still need an answere to my question though.
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